Be Thankful .....!!!!

My dear Souls ;

Did you say Thank you to all ,who are around you !!!

Lets make a list to whom we should be thankful : 

1. GOD 
2. Parents 
3. Family 
4. Friends
5. Job/business 
6. House where you live 
7. Office where you work 
8. Society where you move around
9. The country which houses you and your family 
10. Nature for giving so much to us without demanding anything in return
11. God's creations who makes us happy and fill our hearts with  joy . 

and finally last but not the least - YOU. say thank you to yourself for being a good human being. 

I am sure that you all will follow this and live a happy life . 

GOD Bless you all. 

Much Love, Light, Smiles, Hugs and Blessings !!!
Pranaam 
Vijay 

SMILE....!!

My Dear Souls ; 

Good Morning !

Well. What is the free gift to us , for us and by us . 
YES . A simple and humble smile. 

A smile can change the dynamics of the world around you.  Your smile , unknowingly will bring cheers to someone ,known or unknown to you. The biggest treasures of life - love and friendship starts with a smile only and most of the times the ugly war of words can be put to silence by a smile only. 

I have seen people changing their original reactions after I smiled at them. YES it works and works like a wonder . a magic. 

Look , I am smiling at you all. and you  are still waiting . oh come-on . SMILE. 
Remember it changes your face value and life value too. 

Much Love, Light, Hugs and Blessings and Smiles !! 
Pranaam 
Swami Prem Vijay 

Words.............!!!

My Dear Souls ;

Namaste !!!

Everyday We come across some words in our daily life. some of them just resonate with you and push your attention in the right direction. Some even give you some true wisdom and insight and some are so pithy they stay with you your whole life. and some words take you back to your past and remind you of your mistakes and you make a new learning. 

So in short , why to simply listen and forget . we can change our life and its driving direction with these inspiring words. 

still waiting ..... :)

YES YES YES 
Pranaam 
Much Love, Light , Hugs and Blessings !!!
Pranaam 
Vijay 

In the end ...............!

GOD

Healing

Failure

faith

Life's unaccepted gifts !!!

My Dear Souls ; 
Namaskar . 

It happens so that in our life we come across so many unexpected things/thoughts/issues/people. At the outset we feel hey what is this , this was not expected ! 

BUT than, this is what we call life . we have to accept, whatever life gives to us , we may not want those , but its GOD's plan , so accept those and live with them unconditionally. We are not given many choices !

Slowly you will understand the GOD's plan and start accepting them and one fine moment/day you will find that those things/thoughts/people/issues all are made for you only. 

So accept what life give you !!! 

This humble & simple lesson of life will make your life blissful. 

Much Love, Light , Hugs & Blessings ! 
Pranaam 
Vijay

PRAYER...........!!!

PEACE.......!!!!

ASSUMPTIONS ...!!!

NEVER WASTE YOUR TIME IN UNPRODUCTIVE THINGS !

The Soul River ..........!!!

The river that flows in you also flows in me.
― Kabîr

My Dear Souls ;

As you see from the above master statement ; we all are made up of the same soul. As they say , it is the same hand which made you and which made me ....!!

So spread peace, love, harmony and humanity .

I wish you all a peaceful week.

Much love, Light , Hugs and Blessings !
Pranaam 
vijay 

The Real Buddha

The Real Buddha

People perform a vast number of complex practices
hoping to gain spiritual merit as countless as the grains
of sand on the riverbed of the Ganges:
but you are essentially already perfect in every way.
Don’t try and augment perfection with meaningless practice.
If it’s the right occasion to perform them, let practices happen.
When the time has passed, let them stop.
If you are not absolutely sure that mind is the Buddha,
and if you are attached to the ideas of winning merit from spiritual practices, then your thinking is misguided and not in harmony with the Way.
To practice complex spiritual practices is to progress step by step:
but the eternal Buddha is not a Buddha of progressive stages.
Just awaken to the one Mind,
and there is absolutely nothing to be attained.
This is the real Buddha.

— Huang Po

Most beautiful things ......!!!

My Dear Souls  ;

Namaste ....

All around the world, the present moment is filled with beauty.

If you are attentive, you will see it.  If you are willing, you will help create it.

Let’s take a moment to think about the beautiful things happening around us.

Right now, at this exact moment…

1. A newborn infant just took her first breath.

2. Two teenage romantics just received their very first kiss, from each other.

3. Someone is driving their car with the windows down and singing to their favorite song at the top of their lungs.

4. Volunteers in different cities are actively assisting and standing up for the powerless, the homeless, and the neglected who need someone to speak up for them.

5. Someone is in the middle of complimenting a stranger who desperately needed a reason to smile.

6. Two coworkers are cracking each other up and laughing so hard they aren’t even making any noise.

7. A high school guidance counselor is contributing her time, encouragement, and a listening ear to help a student realize his passion and ability.

8. People near and far are holding hands with the person they love.

9.A husband and wife who were drowning in debt ten years ago proudly hold a balance of zero on all their lines of credit.

10. Someone is going above and beyond and doing a little extra work to make someone else’s life a little easier.

11. People from all over the world are online at crowdfunding sites like GoFundMe pledging online donations to help strangers in need.

12. Responsible designated drivers are getting their friends home safely.

13. A student tutor is volunteering her time to help a fellow student learn.

14. Someone who has struggled with their weight for years is looking down at the scale, smiling.

15. A long-term alcoholic just celebrated exactly one full year of sobriety.

16. Somewhere someone is admiring a breathtaking sunrise, and somewhere else a surreal sunset.

17. A friend is helping a friend rise above feelings of depression and suicide.

18. Someone is holding the door open for the person behind them.

19. A Good Samaritan is pulled over on the side of the road assisting a stranger who’s having car trouble.

20. Someone is celebrating the fact that they just broke their own personal best record.

21. An active duty military member stationed overseas just received an email from a loved one.

22. Hundreds of people are spending a few clicks of their time online at Free Rice.

23. Someone just accidentally overheard someone else say something nice about them.

24. An emergency room surgeon just saved her patient’s life.

25. Two best friends are hugging each other after being apart for a while.

26. Honest people are working tirelessly at various government agencies to help protect the basic human rights and civil liberties of their fellow citizens.

27. Someone who suffered from a severe injury a while back is back on their feet.

28. Several of the world’s next great inventors, artists and entrepreneurs are working diligently on perfecting their breakthrough ideas and crafts.

29. Someone is sitting quietly and smiling about the fact that there’s nowhere else in the world they would rather be right now.

30. Somewhere on the Internet someone is writing an encouraging comment on a blog post that will make others smile. 

There truly is beauty to be seen in every imaginable direction if you are willing to see it and help create it. 

Now Your turn…

In your eyes, what makes this moment beautiful?  Please let us know by leaving a comment below.

All yours

Vijay

Post courtesy : marc & angel 

Life

My Dear Souls ;

Life is the way we live it . 
So Relax , breath , rest everything is taken care by the Universe. 
Much Love, Light , Hugs and Blessings 
Vijay 

Vision and Heart

My Dear Souls; 
Hrudayam is all about looking inside and getting the true essence of life and its teachings to us . 
Much Love, Light , Hugs , Blessings !!!
Vijay 

Learning !!!

My Dear Souls;
Please be a student . And you will get the wisdom from universe !!!
Much Love, Light , Hugs & Blessings !
vijay 

My Dear Souls 
Be a light for your life......!

STORY : MOTHER /// GIVING ///

STORY : MOTHER /// GIVING ///

"Can I see my baby?" the happy new mother asked. When the bundle was nestled in her arms and she moved the fold of cloth to look upon his tiny face, she gasped. The doctor turned quickly and looked out the tall hospital window. The baby had been born without ears.

Time proved that the baby's hearing was perfect. It was only his appearance that was marred. When he rushed home from school one day and flung himself into his mother's arms, she sighed, knowing that his life was to be a succession of heart breaks. He blurted out the tragedy. "A boy, a big boy...called me a freak."

He grew up, handsome for his misfortune. A favorite with his fellow students, he might have been class president, but for that. He developed a gift, a talent for literature and music. "You might mingle with other young people," his mother reproved him, but felt a tenderness in her heart.

The boy's father had a session with the family physician. Could nothing be done? "I believe I could graft on a pair of outer ears, if they could be procured" the doctor decided. Whereupon the search began for a person who would make such a sacrifice for a young man.

Two years went by. Then, "You are going to the hospital, son. Mother and I have someone who will donate the ears you need. But it's a secret" said the father.

The operation was a brilliant success, and a new person emerged. His talents blossomed into genius, and school and college became a series of triumphs. Later he married and entered the diplomatic service. "But I must know!" he urged his father. "Who gave so much for me? I could never do enough for him." "I do not believe you could," said the father, "but the agreement was that you are not to know...not yet."

The years kept their profound secret, but the day did come... one of the darkest days that ever pass through a son. He stood with his father over his mother's casket. Slowly, tenderly, the father stretched forth a hand and raised the thick, reddish-brown hair to reveal... that the mother had no outer ears.

"Mother said she was glad she never let her hair be cut," he whispered gently, "and nobody ever thought mother less beautiful, did they?"

Real beauty lies not in the physical appearance, but in the heart. Real treasure lies not in what can be seen, but what cannot be seen. Real love lies not in what is done and known, but in what is done but not known.

POST COURTESY : ZENACTIVE 

WEEKLY INSPIRATION : Inspiration from top geniuses

WEEKLY INSPIRATION : Inspiration from top geniuses 

My Dear Souls : 
Do you know these facts ......

Albert Einstein did not speak until he was four and did not read until he was seven.

Walt Disney was fired by a newspaper editor because, “he lacked imagination and had no good ideas.”

Isaac Newton never did well in school.

Thomas Edison's teachers told him that he was “too stupid to learn anything.”...

If you are failing, keep on going. The current obstacles are the foundation of your future success. read on for some of the best inspirational stories from around the world.

1. Albert Einstein » Physicist
Best known for the General Theory of Relativity.

Most of us take Einstein's name as synonymous with genius, but he didn't always show such promise. Einstein did not speak until he was four and did not read until he was seven, causing his teachers and parents to think he was mentally handicapped, slow and anti-social.

Eventually, he was expelled from school and was refused admittance to the Zurich Polytechnic School. It might have taken him a bit longer, but most people would agree that he caught on pretty well in the end, winning the Nobel Prize and changing the face of modern physics.


2. Walt Disney » Business man
Founder of The Walt Disney Company.

Today Disney rakes in billions from merchandise, movies and theme parks around the world, but Walt Disney himself had a bit of a rough start. He was fired by a newspaper editor because, "he lacked imagination and had no good ideas."

After that, Disney started a number of businesses that didn't last too long and ended with bankruptcy and failure. He kept plugging along, however, and eventually found a recipe for success that worked.


3. Isaac Newton » Scientist
Best known for: Universal gravitation, Newton's method,
Newtonian mechanics, Optics, Infinitesimal calculus.

Newton was undoubtedly a genius when it came to math, but he had some failings early on. He never did particularly well in school and when put in charge of running the family farm, he failed miserably, so poorly in fact that an uncle took charge and sent him off to Cambridge where he finally blossomed into the scholar we know today.


4. Thomas Edison » Inventor and Businessman
Best known for Electric Light Bulb.

In his early years, teachers told Edison he was "too stupid to learn anything."

Work was no better, as he was fired from his first two jobs for not being productive enough. Even as an inventor, Edison made 1,000 unsuccessful attempts at inventing the light bulb. Of course, all those unsuccessful attempts finally resulted in the design that worked.


5. Henry Ford » Business Man
Founder of Ford Motor.

While Ford is today known for his innovative assembly line and American-made cars, he wasn't an instant success. In fact, his early businesses failed and left him broke five times before he founded the successful Ford Motor Company.


6. Soichiro Honda » Business Man
Founder of Honda Motor.

The billion-dollar business that is Honda began with a series of failures and fortunate turns of luck. Honda was turned down by Toyota Motor Corporation for a job after interviewing for a job as an engineer, leaving him jobless for quite some time.

He started making scooters of his own at home, and spurred on by his neighbors, finally started his own business.


7. Akio Morita » Business Man
Founder of Sony Corporation.

You may not have heard of Morita but you've undoubtedly heard of his company, Sony.

Sony's first product was a rice cooker that unfortunately didn't cook rice so much as burn it, selling less than 100 units. This first setback didn't stop Morita and his partners as they pushed forward to create a multi-billion dollar company.


8. Orville and Wilbur Wright (Wright Brothers) » Airplane Inventors
Education: Completed High School.

These brothers battled depression and family illness before starting the bicycle shop that would lead them to experimenting with flight.

After numerous attempts at creating flying machines, several years of hard work, and tons of failed prototypes, the brothers finally created a plane that could get airborne and stay there.


9. Winston Churchill » UK Politician

This Nobel Prize-winning, twice-elected Prime Minster of the United Kingdom wasn't always as well regarded as he is today.

Churchill struggled in school and failed the sixth grade. After school he faced many years of political failures, as he was defeated in every election for public office until he finally became the Prime Minister at the ripe old age of 62.


10. Abraham Lincoln » US Politician

While today he is remembered as one of the greatest leaders of our nation, Lincoln's life wasn't so easy. In his youth he went to war a captain and returned a private (if you're not familiar with military ranks, just know that private is as low as it goes.)

Lincoln didn't stop failing there, however. He started numerous failed business and was defeated in numerous runs he made for public office.


11. Vincent Van Gogh » artist During his lifetime, Van Gogh sold only one painting, and this was to a friend and only for a very small amount of money.

While Van Gogh was never a success during his life, he plugged on with painting, sometimes starving to complete his over 800 known works.


12. Michael Jordan » Basketball Player

Most people wouldn't believe that the man often lauded as the best basketball player of all time was actually cut from his high school basketball team.

Luckily, Jordan didn't let this setback stop him from playing the game and he has stated, "I have missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I have lost almost 300 games. On 26 occasions I have been entrusted to take the game winning shot, and I missed. I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed."


POST COURTESY : STEPHEN  : MORAL STORIES 

LIFE MANAGEMENT TOOLS : 15 GIFTS YOU CAN GIVE TO YOURSELF.

LIFE MANAGEMENT TOOLS : 15 GIFTS YOU CAN GIVE TO YOURSELF. 

The best things in life aren’t things.  So next time you want to give yourself a gift, save your money, and consider gifting yourself one of the following instead:

1. The freedom to be unapologetically YOU. – Wearing a mask wears you out.  Faking it is fatiguing.  The most arduous activity is pretending to be what you know you aren’t.  Trying to fit some idealistic mold of perfection is a fool’s game.  It’s much wiser to just be yourself – faults and all.  Take off your mask and start being unapologetic about who you really are.  Remember, imperfection is beauty; madness is genius.  It is better to be ridiculously you, than ridiculously boring by trying to be the same as everyone else.  Read The Mastery of Love.

2. An uninhibited imagination. – If we’ve learned anything as a society over the past few decades, it’s that life is changing faster and faster with every passing day.  The world tomorrow looks nothing like the world today.  And the people with big imaginations are the ones not just living it, they are creating it.

3. An open mind. – Everyone you will ever meet knows something you don’t; everyone can teach you something new.  The purpose of keeping an open mind isn’t just to change your mind, it’s to expand your mind to understand the true potential in each moment of your life – to discover a self who has the ability to see more possibilities and expanded points of view (even the ones opposing yours) and then to choose creatively, intuitively, and sacredly going forward.

4. The commitment to fail forward. – Failing is as certain as sunsets and detours.  So why exert energy avoiding the unavoidable?  Embrace it.  Shift your energy from protecting yourself from failure to squeezing the life out of life.  Get real comfortable with that uneasy feeling of going against the grain and trying something new.  Doing so will always take you to places you never thought you could go.

5. Using encouraging words. – Words are powerful.  They can create or they can destroy.  The simple words you choose, especially when you speak to yourself or about yourself, can offer encouragement and positive thoughts going forward, or they can send you further into despair.  So choose your words wisely.

6. A ‘glass’ filled with the right things. – It’s not just whether your glass is half-empty or half-full that matters.  You also have to be mindful of what you’re filling your glass with.  Be sure to fill it with those things that satisfy your soul: good friends and family to love, passions to pursue, dreams to fulfill, and charity for others.  Because the only situation more tragic than seeing your glass as half-empty, is filling your glass until it is overflowing, and then realizing that there’s nothing in it to satisfy your thirst for a meaningful life.

7. Enjoying what you have. – The thing you need to do is enjoy the ride while you’re on it.  Think positive, be positive, and positive things will happen.  Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not.  Enjoy your blessings right now.  Remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.  Celebrate this.  Work on being so appreciative and happy that when others look at you, they become a little happier too.

8. Lifelong learning. – You are simply the product of what you know, so develop a passion for acquiring knowledge.  A passion for learning is different from just studying to earn a grade or please teachers.  It begins in the heart and home.  Read for pleasure, ask questions, analyze, and exploit your curiosities.  In other words, learn to actually love the act of learning.  Read The Last Lecture.

9. Hope. – Remember, it’s always darkest just before the dawn.  Never underestimate the strength of your will to live after a loss, to love after heartache, or to rise after a fall.  For although your troubles may be too dense and dark right now for you to see the light, that doesn’t mean there isn’t a strong spirit within them, or a beautiful sunrise just beyond the horizon.

10. Spirituality. – Faith elevates your view of the universe, your world, and your life.  You would be wise to instill into your mind that you are more than just flesh and blood taking up space.  You are also made of heart, soul, and will.  And decisions in your life should be based on more than just what everyone else with flesh and blood is doing on the outside.

11. Stability and love at home. – A stable home becomes the foundation on which you build the rest of your success.  Subconsciously we all need to know we have a family core who we can trust, and who is going to be there for us through thick and thin.  Faithfulness to your partner is a big part of this.  Faithfulness in any intimate relationship includes more than just your body; it also includes your eyes, mind, heart, and soul.  Guard your sexuality daily and devote it entirely to the one you love.

12. A positive temper. – Anger can be useful in calling your attention to issues that require your response; but anger itself is not an effective response.  Take a slow, deep breath, and remind yourself of how much more effective you can be by maintaining a positive, results-oriented approach to the issue at hand.  Don’t let the silly, thoughtless, destructive actions of others trap you in an unproductive state of anger.  Take note of your anger, let it go, redirect your focus on being your best self, and you’ll surely emerge with a smile.  Read Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff.

13. A sense of humor. – He or she who laughs, lasts.  A sense of humor is a major defense against minor troubles – something life is filled with.  So laugh as often as you can with those around you, for your sake and theirs.

14. Doing the best you are capable of. – Don’t complain about something you can actually do something about.  Take action.  Do the best that you’re capable of.  Any less is cheating yourself.  Those who get the most from life are those who give the most.  Find something you’re passionate about, and keep tremendously interested in it and focused on it.

15. Being the change you want to see. – Happiness, freedom, and peace of mind are always attained by giving them without expectation.  The only way to raise yourself up is to raise others up – to raise your world up – to raise all of life just a little higher.  Joy comes to you when you give it.  Happiness becomes yours when you live it.  Everything you need you are already capable of being.  So smile from the heart and fulfill the destiny that is yours in this priceless moment.

POST COURTESY : MARC AND ANGEL 

Prayer

My Dear Souls , 
Namaste . 

Today we will pray for everyone on this planet who is suffering from some pain or others. Please join me in this universal prayer for all of us . 
May GOD bless each on of us with lot of mental peace , physical fitment , and a humble comfort zone to live in. 
These are the three basic things we need on this earth to live happily , peacefully !!
GOD Bless you all.

Much Love, Light , Hugs and Blessings !!

Vijay 

Purpose of life

MY Dear Souls ;
Find a purpose of life..... 
This is the message for today. 
Love , Light , Hugs and Blessings .
GOD Bless You.

I FORGIVE YOU

My Dear Souls ;

Namaste !

If you remember, Long back I have given you a single word statement/sentence  : YES 

than I have given you two word statement/sentence  : THANK YOU 

After that i was thinking as what should be my three word statement/sentence which can be both way effective : I have selected many :::::::

I LOVE YOU 

I AM SORRY 

YOU NEVER KNOW 

GOD BLESS YOU 

ALL IS WELL

LOVE YOUR LIFE 

LIFE IS BLISS 

FRIENDS ARE FOREVER 

etc etc etc ... but none was so effective for thought process. I was searching and than suddenly a flash came to me YES this is it. I got the three word statement/sentence for all of us. 

So my dear souls the three word statement/sentence  is : 

I FORGIVE YOU. 

yes my dear souls , this statement makes both the sender and the receiver blissful. both are relieved. both become close with a single statement : I FORGIVE YOU.

still waiting .. go ahead. forget the past. forgive someone and feel light for the rest of your life. 

GOD bless you all. 

Pranaam 

Much Love, Light , Hugs and Blessings !!!

Hrudayam Love

<<<<<<<<< From the desk of GOD >>>>>>>

:Effective Immediately:

Please be aware that there are changes you need to make in your life. These changes need to be completed in order that I may fulfill my promises to you to grant you peace, joy and happiness in this life. I apologize for any inconvenience, but after all that I am doing, this seems very little to ask of you. I know, I already gave you the 10 Commandments. Keep them. But follow these guidelines as well...

1. QUIT WORRYING

Life has dealt you a blow and all you do is sit and worry. Have you forgotten that I am here to take all your burdens and carry them for you? Or do you just enjoy fretting over every little thing that comes your way?

2. PUT IT ON THE LIST

Something needs done or taken care of. Put it on the list. No, not YOUR list. Put it on MY to-do-list. Let ME be the one to take care of the problem. I can't help you until you turn it over to me. And, although my to-do-list is long, I am, after all, God. I can take care of anything you put into my hands. In fact, if the truth were ever really known, I take care of a lot of things for you that you never even realize.

3. TRUST ME

Once you've given your burdens to me, quit trying to take them back. Trust in me. Have the faith that I will take care of all your needs, your problems and your trials. Problems with the kids? Put them on my list. Problem with finances? Put it on my list. Problems with your emotional roller coaster? For my sake, put it on my list. I want to help you. All you have to do is ask.

4. LEAVE IT ALONE

Don't wake up one morning and say, "Well, I'm feeling much stronger now, I think I can handle it from here." Why do you think you are feeling stronger now? It's simple. You gave me your burdens and I'm taking care of them. I also renew your strength and cover you in my peace. Don't you know that if I give you these problems back, you will be right back where you started? Leave them with me and forget about them. Just let me do my job.

5. TALK TO ME

I want you to forget a lot of things. Forget what was making you crazy. Forget the worry and the fretting because you know I'm in control. But there's one thing I pray you never forget. Please don't forget to talk to me - OFTEN! I love you. I want to hear your voice. I want you to include me in on the things going on in your life. I want to hear you talk about your friends and family. Prayer is simply you having a conversation with me. I want to be your dearest friend.

6. HAVE FAITH

I see a lot of things from up here that you can't see from where you are. Have faith in me that I know what I'm doing. Trust me, you wouldn't want the view from my eyes. I will continue to care for you, watch over you, and meet your needs. You only have to trust me. Although I have a much bigger task than you, it seems as if you have so much trouble just doing your simple part. How hard can trust be?

7. SHARE

You were taught to share when you were only two years old. When did you forget? That rule still applies. Share with those who are less fortunate than you. Share your joy with those who need encouragement. Share your laughter with those who haven't heard any in such a long time. Share your tears with those who have forgotten how to cry. Share your faith with those who have none.

8. BE PATIENT

I managed to fix it so in just one lifetime you could have so many diverse experiences. You grow from a child to an adult, have children, change jobs many times, learn many trades, travel to so many places, meet thousands of people, and experience so much. How can you be so impatient then when it takes me a little longer than you expect to handle something on my to-do-list? Trust in my timing, for my timing is perfect. Just because I created the entire universe in only six days, everyone thinks I should always rush, rush, rush.

9. BE KIND

Be kind to others, for I love them just as much as I love you. They may not dress like you, or talk like you, or live the same way you do, but I still love you all. Please try to get along, for my sake. I created each of you different in some way. It would be too boring if you were all identical. Please know I love each of your differences.

10. LOVE YOURSELF

As much as I love you, how can you not love yourself? You were created by me for one reason only - to be loved, and to love in return. I am a God of Love. Love me. Love your neighbors. But also love yourself. It makes my heart ache when I see you so angry with yourself when things go wrong. You are very precious to me. Don't ever forget that!

With all my heart, I love you,

GOD

Life management tools : 5 things – you should stop doing and start doing !!!

Life management tools : 5 things – you should stop doing and start doing !!!

:::5 Things to Stop Doing :::

1.  Stop stalling and being lazy.

You can’t build a good reputation or a successful way of life based on what you could do or might do someday.  The quality of your life is in direct proportion to your commitment to get things done, regardless of your chosen path.

2.  Stop neglecting your self-control.

Nobody ever wrote down a plan to be broke, lazy, out of shape, uneducated, etc.  These things happen when you lose your self-control.

3.  Stop looking outside yourself.

The problem is that when you think you have to LOOK for things in life like love, meaning, and inspiration, the LOOKING implies that these things are somehow hiding behind some bushes somewhere, just waiting to be discovered.  But that’s not the case.

4.  Stop letting negative people drain you.

You might think being alone makes you lonely, but that’s not entirely true.  Being surrounded by the wrong people is the loneliest place in the world.

5.  Stop belittling your efforts and your progress.

Appreciate where you are now and keep fighting for where you want to be tomorrow.  You are not a failure until you give up on yourself.  Keep going! Hard times may hold you down for awhile but they will not last forever, and when all is said and done, you will be able to stand even taller than those who didn’t earn it.

::::5 Things to Start Doing :::

1.  Start living.

Don’t simply exist in this world, grab life’s full potential by the horns and ride it out.  Dare life to be all it can be.  Make it a memorable  gripping account of accomplishment.  Make it a thrilling, challenging, bold adventure.  Make life a passionate, enduring, poetic romance. Whatever it is you decide to do with your life, LIVE it!  Get going!  Move forward, aim high, plan your takeoff.  Don’t just sit on the runway.  Adjust your attitude and gain some altitude.  

2.  Start taking chances that feel right.

Life will try to break you sometimes; nothing and no one can completely protect you from it.  Remaining alone in your comfort zone won’t either, for endless, stagnant solitude will also break you with yearning. You’re human.  You have to love.  You have to feel.  You have to strive.  You are here to risk your heart by putting it into something you believe in.  If you avoid taking these chances, one thing is certain, you will make is safely to death someday, feeling empty and unfulfilled.

3.  Start indulging in meaningful challenges.

What a true blessing it is that there is always work to be done.  Because the real value of any accomplishment is not in the end result, it is in the process of accomplishment. Success is a state of mind, and the most reliable way to reach that state is by working mindfully through a meaningful challenge.  Such a challenge might seem somewhat overwhelming when you first encounter it, yet as you progress through it, you transform the work from overwhelming to fulfilling.  

4.  Start nurturing your real family.

Family is built with love; it’s not determined by marriage certificates, divorce papers, and formal adoption documents.  Families grow from the heart, through mutual love and respect.  The only time family becomes nullified is when the ties in the heart are cut.  If you cut the ties, these people are not your family.  If you build the ties, these people are your family.  So build ties with the right people and nurture them with love.

5.  Start making time for YOU.

There is objective time meant for focused work, but also subjective time where the pulse of your life breathes – your relationships, your awareness, your hobbies, etc. So find the time – the time to read, to smell the flowers, to take a walk in the wilderness, to share a laugh, to learn a fun craft, to try a new recipe, to explore somewhere new, to really be with someone you love, to paint your dreams, or even to just do nothing and relax for a while.  Find time for YOU.


Post courtesy @ marc & angel 

Strengths & Weaknesses !!!

Story : The Judo Master

Sometimes your biggest weakness can become your biggest strength. Take, for example, the story of one 10-year-old boy who decided to study judo despite the fact that he had lost his left arm in a devastating car accident.

The boy began lessons with an old Japanese judo master. The boy was doing well, so he couldn't understand why, after three months of training, the master had taught him only one move. 

"Sensei," the boy finally said, "shouldn't I be learning more moves?"
"This is the only move you know, but this is the only move you'll ever need to know," the sensei replied. Not quite understanding, but believing in his teacher, the boy kept training.

Several months later, the sensei took the boy to his first tournament. 

Surprising himself, the boy easily won his first two matches. The third match proved to be more difficult, but after some time, his opponent became impatient and charged; the boy deftly used his one move to win the match. Still amazed by his success, the boy was now in the finals.

This time, his opponent was bigger, stronger, and more experienced. For a while, the boy appeared to be overmatched. Concerned that the boy might get hurt, the referee called a time-out. He was about to stop the match when the sensei intervened. "No," the sensei insisted, "Let him continue."

Soon after the match resumed, his opponent made a critical mistake: he dropped his guard. Instantly, the boy used his move to pin him. The boy had won the match and the tournament. He was the champion.

On the way home, the boy and sensei reviewed every move in each and every match. Then the boy summoned the courage to ask what was really on his mind. "Sensei, how did I win the tournament with only one move?"

"You won for two reasons," the sensei answered. "First, you've almost mastered one of the most difficult throws in all of judo. Second, the only known defense for that move is for your opponent to grab your left arm."

The boy's biggest weakness had become his biggest strength.

:::::No human on this planet is perfect, we all have a crack in our backside. ::::::

post courtesy @ zenactive 

Happiness

My Dear Souls ;

Happiness is the only thing in this material world which will take us into our comfort zones. So try to be happy . make other happy . live happily ever after !
Much Love , Light , Hugs and Blessings 
Pranaam 
Hrudayam Love

Prayer

My Dear Souls; 
Namaste .

Prayer is amazing . This has to be accepted. The miracles happen . Prayer heals all of us . Pray for self but take time to pray for other. We all need prayers !!!!
GOD bless you all. he is there to hear your prayers and to send the healings to you and your dear ones.

And YES , I always pray for all of you. Hrudayam is all yours . 

Love, Light , Hugs and Blessings !!!!!

Pranaam 
Vijay 

good deed of the day

My Dear Souls ;

and now  the basic question  : Did you do your good deed of the day ?

one single work of kindness is equal to millions of thought together . GOD has given us so much , why not give back to society in one form or other. We never forget to do anything which we require to do for a comfortable living . so please move ahead , go on and help someone who is needy . 

your this very single act of kindness will make you a real human and this is it ! what else you need in your life.

This is all for this life from my desk to you all. 
Pranaam 

Much Love , Light and Hugs 
Hrudayam Love

well being of GOD.

My dear Souls ;

When was the last time when you thought of well being of GOD. 

We all are continuously asking , demanding , praying to GOD , we never let him have his space. We ask, we demand, we curse, we abuse, we complain ,we shout at him . we do everything to him whatever is possible and sometimes impossible also ; by abusing him in the name of religion. 

Ever we thought , that he too need 

some rest ? Half of the world is after him at any point of given time. Very strange truth , but it is !

So when was the last time you thought of giving him some rest. Don’t you think that he deserves some space, some time !!!!

Please stop ! He has given you a life ! now the call is all ours. For every small thing if we start troubling the BOSS, than what is the use our being here. Right ? So , give him a break. He needs it !

Pranaam .

Much Love, Light and Hugs

Hrudayam Love

Destiny

Sow a thought, reap an act; 
Sow an act, reap a habit; 
Sow a habit, reap a character; 
Sow a character, reap a destiny. 

~ Unknown

RELATIONSHIP

YOU....!

My Dear Souls ; 

You are very important . not only to other , but to yourself too. The world needs a better person like you . so instead of changing the world , if  we change to ourselves , the world will become a great place for our kids and grandchildren, after all this is the only place we are leaving for them. lets make it more beautiful  by  making a better " YOU " . GOD Bless you. 

Much Love and Light and hugs !

Vijay